*H He that loveth his son, frequently chastiseth him, that he may rejoice in his latter end, and not grope after the doors of his neighbours.
Ver. 1. He. Gr. prefixes "on children." H. — And not, &c. is omitted in Gr. It may signify, and not beg, (C.) or steal. H. — The welfare of the country depends on the good education of children, which cannot be performed without correction, (C.) though this should never be used till more gentle means have been tried. Fenelon on Educ. — The neglect of correction proceeds from a misplaced tenderness, (Prov. xiii. 24.) which in the end proves most prejudicial both to the child and to the public. H. — See Plato, rep. ii. and vii. Arist. pol. vi. Cic. off. ii. C.
* Footnote * Proverbs 13 : 24
He that spareth the rod, hateth his son: but he that loveth him, correcteth him betimes.* Footnote * Proverbs 23 : 13
Withhold not correction from a child: for if thou strike him with the rod, he shall not die.*H He that instructeth his son shall be praised in him, and shall glory in him in the midst of them of his household.
Ver. 2. Them. Gr. "his acquaintance." H. — He sees himself re-born in his son. v. 4. C.
* Footnote * Deuteronomy 6 : 7
And thou shalt tell them to thy children, and thou shalt meditate upon them sitting in thy house, and walking on thy journey, sleeping and rising.*H For the souls of his sons he shall bind up his wounds, and at every cry his bowels shall be troubled.
Ver. 7. Wounds. To which he has exposed himself for his child's welfare, (2 Cor. xii. 15. Raban.) or if he neglect correction, he will have to bewail the wounds which his son's imprudence shall occasion. Syr. Vat. Gr. Comp. "He who rubs, (Rom. edit.) cherishes his son," &c. C. — The eldest brother must take care of the rest, so as even to expose himself to danger. W.
*H A horse not broken becometh stubborn, and a child left to himself will become headstrong.
Ver. 8. Horse. A colt full of spirit, when properly broken in, will answer best, so a proper education corrects impetuous tempers. Plut. apop. in Them.
*H Laugh not with him, lest thou have sorrow, and at the last thy teeth be set on edge.
Ver. 10. Laugh. "Smiling he must be feared." S. Greg. Mor. xx. 3.
*H Give him not liberty in his youth, and wink not at his devices.
Ver. 11. Devices. Gr. "sins of ignorance." Youth is incapable of guiding itself, being destitute of experience, and too confident. Prov. xxix. 45.
*H Instruct thy son, and labour about him, lest his lewd behaviour be an offence to thee.
Ver. 13. Thee. "Very few excel their father." Hom. Odys. E. — This is sometimes to be attributed to the neglect of education. C. — Gr. subjoins, "on health." H.
*H Better is a poor man who is sound, and strong of constitution, than a rich man who is weak and afflicted with evils.
Ver. 14. Evils. Health is better than riches. Pythag. &c.
*H Health of the soul in holiness of justice, is better than all gold and silver: and a sound body, than immense revenues.
Ver. 15. Justice. This is the first of all advantages. C. — Thales pronounced him happy who was healthy and rich, and "whose soul was well tutored." Laert. — Gr. "health and a good constitution are preferable to all gold, and a," &c. H.
*H Better is death than a bitter life, and everlasting rest, than continual sickness.
Ver. 17. Rest. In the grave. He speaks not of the soul. Job iii. 13.
*H Good things that are hidden in a mouth that is shut, are as messes of meat set about a grave.
Ver. 18. Grave. The dead cannot partake of them, (C.) so neither can the sick of their great possessions. H. — It was customary to place meat on the tombs of the dead. C. — The pagans invited them to eat; (S. Epip. Ancor.) but the faithful intended it for the poor, who might pray (C.) for the deceased. M. C. vii. 37. Tob. iv. 18. — The kings of France were served at table till they were placed in the tomb, and in many monasteries the usual portion is assigned the dead for thirty days, and given to the poor. C.
* Footnote * Daniel 14 : 6
Then Daniel smiled, and said: O king, be not deceived: for this is but clay within, and brass without, neither hath he eaten at any time.*H He seeth with his eyes, and groaneth, as an eunuch embracing a virgin, and sighing.
Ver. 21. Sighing. Thus meat is useless to those whom God visits with sickness. See c. xx. 3.
*H Give not up thy soul to sadness, and afflict not thyself in thy own counsel.
Ver. 22. Sadness. For temporal things, but trusting in Providence. 1 Pet. v. 7. Grief for sin is alone of service. 2 Cor. vii. 10. C. — Pusillanimity must be avoided. W.
* Footnote * Proverbs 12 : 25
Grief in the heart of a man shall bring him low, but with a good word he shall be made glad.* Footnote * Proverbs 15 : 13
A glad heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by grief of mind the spirit is cast down.* Footnote * Proverbs 17 : 22
A joyful mind maketh age flourishing: a sorrowful spirit drieth up the bones.*H The joyfulness of the heart, is the life of a man, and a never failing treasure of holiness: and the joy of a man is length of life.
Ver. 23. A never. Gr. "the joy," &c. Prov. xvii. 22. and 2 Cor. ix. 7.
*H Have pity on thy own soul, pleasing God, and contain thyself: gather up thy heart in his holiness: and drive away sadness far from thee.
Ver. 24. Have. Gr. "love thy soul, and comfort thy heart, and drive," &c. H.
*H For sadness hath killed many, and there is no profit in it.
Ver. 25. Many. Bringing on maladies, and driving people into despair. v. 22. It was thought that the sad could not prophesy. 4 K. iii. 15. Hermas ii. Mand. iii. More Neb. ii. 37. C.
* Footnote * 2_Corinthians 7 : 10
For the sorrow that is according to God worketh penance, steadfast unto salvation: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.*H Envy and anger shorten a man's days, and pensiveness will bring old age before the time.
Ver. 26. Envy. Or jealousy. These passions banish joy. Envy is like rust. C.
*H A cheerful and good heart is always feasting: for his banquets are prepared with diligence.
Ver. 27. Always. Gr. "will mind the meats which it shall eat." H. — It will feast and enjoy content. This verse and the following chapters are in a much less natural order in the Gr. editions, till c. xxxvii. C.